Worcester teen 'didn't have a childhood' as father's caregiver

A woman who became her father's caregiver while she was still in elementary school said she felt like she didn't have a childhood.

Cat Foster-Phillips, from Worcester, began caring for Jon Foster-Phillips when he was eight years old.

This happened after he was diagnosed with emphysema, a form of chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD).

Speaking to BBC Hereford & Worcester during Carers Week, she said: “It meant I didn't have a childhood because my brain was constantly worrying about him.”

“It gave me a reality check when I realized I was in it for the long haul and I knew I had to be mature about it.

“At the age of 10, I was probably as mature as someone who is 16, 17 or even older, because you have to make sure the person gets all the appropriate medications and support at all times.”

Now 18, Ms Foster-Phillips said she saw her absence from childhood as worth seeing her father's happiness.

“It’s been quite stressful but it’s been very rewarding to see his happy face because even in the darkest hours it can be your light,” she said.

Emphysema causes breathing problems and can eventually reach a stage where it is life-threatening, according to the NHS.

Mr Foster-Phillips' daughter said she enjoyed every day spent with him, calling it an “added bonus”.

She said that throughout her care career she had been supported by Worcestershire Young Carers, who contacted her when she was 10 years old when she visited her GP due to stress.

“What they give me is unconditional support. They gave me back the confidence and that childhood that I lost,” Ms Foster-Phillips said.

“They also give you that free time and break you need. That little boost is enough for morale to keep going.”

Carers Week is an annual campaign which aims to raise awareness of care, highlighting the challenges faced by unpaid carers.