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How a lighthouse is trying to combat sex trafficking in South Carolina • SC Daily Gazette

COLUMBIA — It all started ten years ago, with the story of a young girl from Richland County. According to police, she was intelligent and wise, from a stable home.

But then she went to a party. Things went wrong.

Some people took embarrassing photos and used them to blackmail her, threatening to distribute them to her school. Unbeknownst to her family, she was exploited and became a victim of sex trafficking.

One day she ran away from home and her family didn't know why until they found a strange number in their phone records. When police dialed her, she was connected to an escort service.

Her story, told from a church pulpit in 2014 by a Richland County Sheriff's Department school resource officer invited by the pastor to speak, is what inspired Andrea Wind, a teacher and mother.

It opened her eyes to the fact that sex trafficking is happening in South Carolina, in her own community in the Midlands, and she decided to fight back.

Wind founded the nonprofit Lighthouse for Life to help other victims of sex trafficking who, like this young girl, often remain hidden.

“Her parents had no idea,” said Lisa Kejr, director of the nonprofit. “She had to sneak out at night and go do what they asked her to do, then come back, take a shower, and go to school the next day…Her whole world was shattered because of one bad decision during a party. »

Now, after 10 years in business, Lighthouse for Life plans to bring something the Columbia area has never had before: a shelter for sex-trafficked girls looking to escape.

South Carolina has four other emergency shelters in the state, but only one of them, located in Aiken, houses minors. In late June, Kejr said Lighthouse would seek certification from the state Department of Human Services to open a second one, hopefully by the end of 2024.

Last year, 342 cases involving sex trafficking were opened in South Carolina, according to an annual report from the state attorney general's office. The vast majority of trafficking victims were minors and women.

The state lacks safe places where victims of these crimes can go, the report said. That prompted Attorney General Alan Wilson to request $10 million from the state Legislature for shelters.

South Carolina attorney general wants $10 million to open shelters for human trafficking survivors

The Senate approved $5 million while the House approved $1 million. Budget writers in both chambers continue to negotiate.

If approved to open, the Lighthouse shelter will be able to house up to five women and girls at a time, ages 12 to 21, Kejr said.

While five may not seem like a big number, Kejr said smaller groups generally get better results.

“If you get too many in one space at once, the success rate goes down,” she said. “It’s starting to feel more like a facility than care.” So we're trying to get the numbers down.

“It’s more of a family atmosphere,” she continued. “There’s all the attention they specifically need.”

In addition to giving women and girls a place to live, the shelter will also be an approved private secondary school suitable for residents.

“When someone is a victim, we don’t know at what age that trauma started and what impact it may have had on their upbringing,” Kejr said. “You can have someone who is (numerically) in 10th grade, but is functioning at a third or fourth grade level.”

A possible safe house isn't Lighthouse's only milestone. Last week, he celebrated the opening of what he calls a women's drop-in service center.

Lighthouse for Life, a Columbia nonprofit established to help victims of sex trafficking in the Midlands, cut the ribbon on Thursday, June 13, 2024 at the group's new walk-in service center, located on St. Andrews Road in Colombia. (Jessica Holdman/SC Daily Gazette)

Located in a renovated house in northwest Columbia, near the intersection of Highways 20 and 26, the drop-in center offers women a place to prepare a hot meal, take a shower, do their laundry or receive guests. other help.

Even though Lighthouse has been supporting survivors of sex trafficking in the Columbia area for a decade, it doesn't have a space of its own, Kejr said.

Last year, the nonprofit helped 40 survivors by connecting them with services.

“We just didn’t have a location,” Kejr said. “Our meetings took place in cafes, in public places or by telephone. We sometimes used the church facilities to create a support group, but it just wasn't ideal. It didn't make them feel like they really had a place they could come to. »

Now, Lighthouse can offer finance classes, cooking classes, parenting classes, and just a place to gather.

The woman who will run the shelter is a survivor of sex trafficking herself.

Heather Pagán was trafficked from the age of 14 until she was 32.

The Lexington native said she experienced trauma as a child. Promised love and protection, she falls into a trap. Her attacker sent her to work in strip clubs. She had to be arrested in 2008 and sent to prison for two years to get out.

After her release from prison, Pagán began trying to help other women. She went to work for a nonprofit in Germany, frequenting brothels in the country's red light districts and helping women escape. In 2017, she returned to South Carolina and connected with Lighthouse for Life through a women's conference.

Heather Pagán, of Lexington, shows before and after photos of the renovated house that has become a new drop-in service center for Colombian women and girls who have been victims of sex trafficking. Formerly a victim of sex trafficking, Pagán now participates in the operation of the center opened Thursday June 13, 2024 by Lighthouse for Life, a Columbia nonprofit established to help victims of sex trafficking in the Midlands. (Jessica Holdman/SC Daily Gazette)

If Lighthouse for Life had been operating at the time she was being trafficked, “it could have changed a lot of things for me,” Pagán said.

“In 2008, South Carolina did not have a (human trafficking) task force. It wasn't something people talked about. There was really little knowledge about exploitation and trafficking,” she added.

Kejr called sex trafficking, in particular, one of the most complicated criminal industries in existence.

“(The victims) find themselves in a relationship that they thought was good and solid. But all of a sudden the situation turns around and they start taking advantage of it by saying, “But now you have to do it. You owe me. If you really love me, you're going to do this,'” Kejr said. “Eventually it becomes more controlling. They will use any kind of force, fraud or coercion possible to maintain what the individual thought was a relationship healthy.

Kejr said the victims Lighthouse helped and their stories vary: There is one woman whose father trafficked her. In another case, a man who went to work in the medical office where his father was a patient was exploited by the doctor. For others, they needed a place to live and were forced to engage in sexual acts in exchange for housing.

“Lighthouse for Life is one of the few organizations where this is our sole focus,” Kejr said. “Our whole job is just to fight that.”

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